It all comes in a package
還記得數年前，從友人口中第一次聽到“it all comes in a package”這個想法，那一刻對於我來説，實在有著當頭棒喝的意義，因爲在那刹那之前，從來我都認爲追求完美是理所當然的事，爲何我們要委屈接受生命中出現瑕疵呢？
“It all comes in a package”是個務實的概念，既然有許多東西其好與壞是不能分割的，與其一直挑剔，倒不如包容接受，正因爲能夠接納其中的不完美，我們才可獲得最多最全面。
甚麽“愛屋及烏”、“有辣有唔辣”，道理其實早就聽過，只是套了英文的糖衣包裝，再加上友人的演繹，我立刻肅然起敬。
自此以後，我一直提醒自己“it all comes in a package”，學會放下執著，尤其是對身邊的人和事。同樣地，希望我也給接受作爲一個整體"package"，如果分割了這些那些，到最後那個可能不再是我。
畢竟，package就是“不-給-切”（國語）；切了，就不是package了。
it all comes in a package..
hmm...this is really something to ponder...
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I learn another phrase from my friend: "everything happens with a reason." 一件事的發生必有因果. 現在未知道, 只是時辰未到吧!
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learned this recently:
Dance Like Nobody's Watching
Love Like Never Been Hurt
Work Like You DOn't Need The Money
Can't quite do as such yet.
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everyone's a unique package...if u like it, take it... if u take it, accept the "uniqueness" of it
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